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Girlfriend Generation
The dictionary defines girlfriend as “a sweetheart of a boy or man, a girl who is ones best friend and / or the woman friend of a woman.” Wow, that’s it? Somebody call Webster’s. These days you need to include things like your connection to reality, the person or people that seem to know what you need before you do, the people that will sit up and talk to you until 4am. These are your backups. They understand you, love you, are honest with you, instead of dishing you BS, will be there when no one else is. Does that sound like your girlfriends? I hope so, for your sake. This is absolutely one of life’s necessities. Have you noticed the girlfriend revolution? How important “Girlfriends” have become. We would like to think we have always known, but the truth is we have not. It has not always been so easy to define. Think about elementary school for a minute. You go into kindergarten and usually, if you are a girl, you have a best friend within days. This is the one you have to sit next to, play with dolls, hold hands going anywhere in that big scary school. You can not wait to come back to school the next day. This works for a few years. Along about third grade you discover boys. Not like they did not exist before, but somehow it’s just different. They are completely oblivious to this by the way. Very shortly, they will come to the conclusion that you are just “weird”. That is where the problem seems to start. They treat you the same as always, but somehow it seems different. You and Sally were best friends yesterday. Today, for some reason, when Tommy said hi to her and not you, this became a problem. How did that happen? I have no idea. But, I think it has something to do with role models and hormones. We see it all around us growing up even if we are not aware of it. You can not blame your mother, Aunt or even your grandmother. This goes way back and way beyond them. Mix that with the female hormones and look out. So why the change? Why all of a sudden not only is it OK to have Girlfriends, but a necessity? That is the reason ladies. It is a necessity. In every area of your life, this addition is needed in the worst way. 1) Emotionally - Does not it just make sense to have someone in your life that can understand that sometimes you are just sad? And yes, crying does make me feel better! 2) Physically - I am sure she has issues with a body part here and there. Who else would understand not getting in your swimsuit and going to the pool in 97 degree weather? 3) Psychologically - We just think differently. We always have, we always will. She understands why you get annoyed when your other half does not take the laundry downstairs on his way to his car. 4) Romantically - Who else will you bounce things off of? Who else will get just as excited over your plans as you? This way you can be doubly annoyed when he misses the whole point. So who are they? Who are the Girlfriends in your life that you just can not live without? Have you really thought about it? Do they deserve to be there? Do you deserve to have them? I would like to give you a starting point. Hint …. it is not necessarily the ones you party with all the time. As fun as they may be, they may not have your best interest at heart. So do not confuse an acquaintance or friend with a “girlfriend”. Here’s a little help. • Is she one of the first people you need to call when something happens? Good or Bad? • Is she your weekend buddy (without makeup)? • Is she honest with you always …..? • Does she give you advice whether you like it or not, but does not get upset if you do not take it? (This is a biggy.) • Do you not have to censor your thoughts and / or opinions with her? • Does she make you feel safe? • Are you sure she will be there through thick and thin without question? How did your girlfriends do? For me, in order to be my Girlfriend, you have to meet those requirements. ALL of them. This is not a test nor is it a private club. It is my life. It’s your life too, so treat it with the care and consideration that you deserve to have. If you do not who will? Be good to yourself and only surround yourself with people that believe you are worth it. For those that have a “spouse” or a facsimile of one, a girlfriend is a totally different ballgame. Girlfriends support, they do not try to fix. Your partner just wants to fix it and be done with it. You know …… change the channel? In High School, the guy meant everything. You were expected to blow off your girlfriends at the last minute if you got a date. No one liked it when it happened to them but, if the tables were turned you would do the same thing. Girlfriend rule ….. should you lose your mind and find yourself dialing the phone to cancel on your girlfriend because of a “date”, she has the right, at a later time, to lecture you AND you must sit there and take it without complaint. Girlfriend rules are basic in nature and should be geared to you, but, they should also have some basics. Do unto others (you know the rest), but be honest with love and always take care to protect not only yourself but the people that you love. One more thing; leave behind the judgement. It serves no purpose. If it is not screamingly apparent to you, I love my girlfriends. I could not survive without them. They are the most amazing women you could meet and I thank god for them every day. They are each unique and totally amazing in their own way. They are beautiful, inside and out, and giving in a way that boggles the mind. “Girlfriends are the charms of our life. We collect them for their meaning and beauty and create an heirloom uniquely our own.” Be creative. You have just read excerpts of the book “Generation Girlfriend” it is fun and meaningful all at the same time. This book is meant to be shared. The perfect gift Friend, with plenty of areas inside to add your own love. Great for all the women in your life. At the end, a journal, for the owner to share with herself. Are you a good Girlfriend? Not to your other half, to the women in your life. Women’s friendships have changed dramatically over the past few years. This is a little walk down memory lane, with the concentration on the here, the now and the who. Who are your Girlfriends? Do they deserve you? Do you deserve them? An easy read with lots of common sense thrown in.. Your reaction may surprise you. To order or download the book please go to You can also go to my website at My name is Cindy Penkoff, I live in Connecticut and I am 44 years old. This is my first attempt at writing anything that I wanted someone else to read. I have been married for a very long time and have one son. Both of these men I adore. If you would like to know more about me please check out the following article recently done Thanks for your time. The bride dictionary defines as “a love of a child or a man, a girl who is best friend and / or the wife of a friend of a woman”. Wow, that’s it? Someone call somebody.
These days should include things like their relationship to reality, the person or persons who seem to know what they need to do before you, people sit up and talk to you until 4 am. These are backups. They understand that love, are honest with you, instead of dishing you BS, will be there when no one else is. Does that sound like your friends? So I hope, for their sake. This is absolutely one of the necessities of life.
Have you noticed the bride revolution? How important “brides” have become. We would like to think that we have always known, but the truth is that they have not done so. It has not always been so easy to define.
Think of the elementary school for a minute. You go into kindergarten and usually, if you are a girl, you have a best friend within days. This is where you have to sit next to, play with dolls, hand going nowhere in the great fear that school. You can not wait to return to school the next day. This works for a few years.
Along about third grade children to discover. It is not as if they did not exist before, but somehow it is simply different. They are completely alien to this by the way. Very soon, they will come to the conclusion that you are simply “strange”. That is where the problem seems to begin. To treat yourself as always, but somehow seems different. You and Sally are best friends yesterday. Today, for some reason, when Tommy said hello to her and not you, which became a problem. How did that happen? I have no idea. But I think that has something to do with the models and hormones. We see all around us that grow even if we are not aware of this. You can not blame your mother, your aunt or grandmother. This goes way back and beyond. Mix that with the female hormones and watch.
So why the change? Why suddenly is not only OK to have girlfriends, but a necessity? That is why ladies. It is a necessity. In every area of your life, this is needed in the worst way.
1) Emotionally - not only makes sense to have someone in their lives who can understand that sometimes you are just sad? And yes, I do mourn feel better!
2) Physically - I am sure she has problems with a body part here and there. Who else could understand not getting into your swimsuit and go to the pool in 97 degree weather?
3) Psychologically - We just think differently. We always have, always will be. She understands why you annoyed when their other half does not take clothes down on his way to his car.
4) romantic - Who else is going to bounce out of things? Who else will equally excited about their plans as you? Thus, it can be doubly annoying if it becomes insane.
So, who are they? Who are the brides in your life that you can not live without him? Have you really thought about it? What deserve to be there? Is Worthy have? I would like to give you a starting point. Tip …. Is not necessarily to be part of the whole time. As fun as they are, may not have their best interests at heart. So do not confuse an acquaintance or friend with a “girlfriend”. Here is a little help.
• Is she one of the first people they should call when something happens? Good or bad?
• Is it your weekend friends (without makeup)?
• Are honest with you ….. Always?
• Do you give advice like it or not, but not bad if not take it? (This is a biggy.)
• Do not have to censor their ideas and / or opinions with it?
• Does make you feel safe?
• Are you sure you will be there through thick and thin without question?
How do your friends? For me, for my girlfriend, you have to comply with those requirements. ALL of them. This is not a test or a private club. It is my life. It’s your life, so treat them with care and consideration you deserve to have. If not, who will? Be good to yourself and just be surrounded by people who believe they deserve it.
For those who have a “spouse” or a facsimile of one, a bride is a totally different ball. Brides support, which do not try to fix. Your partner just want to fix it and what to do with it. You know …… Change the channel?
In High School, the kind meant everything. You are expected to blow off their girlfriends at the last minute when he received a date. Nobody liked it when it happened to them, but if the tables were turned you would do the same.
Bride ….. Rule you should lose his mind and found dialing the telephone to cancel his girlfriend because of a “date” she has the right, at a later time, the conference you and you should sit down and take without complaint.
Bride rules are basic in nature and should be directed to you, but they should also have some basic concepts. Do unto others (you know the rest), to be honest, but always with love and care to protect not only you but the people that you love. One more thing; leave behind the ruling. That serves no purpose.
If not screamingly apparent to you, I love my girlfriend. I could not survive without them. They are the most wonderful that women can meet, and I thank God for them every day. Each is completely unique and surprising in its way. They are beautiful, inside and out, and giving in a way that the mind boggles.
“Brides are the charms of our lives. Collect for their meaning and beauty and creating a unique heritage of ours.” Be creative.
You just read excerpts from the book “Generation Girlfriend” is fun and meaningful all at the same time. This book is designed to be shared. The perfect gift friend with a lot of areas within add your own love. Excellent for all women in their lives. In the end, a magazine for the owner to share with herself. Are you a good girl? Not your other half, the women in their lives. Women’s friendships have changed dramatically in recent years. This is a little walk down memory lane, with the focus on the here and now that. Who are their girlfriends? What you deserve? Do they deserve? An easy reading with lots of common sense thrown in. Your reaction may surprise you.
To order or download the book please go to http://www.lulu.com/content/2155279 You can also go to my website at http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com
My name is Cindy Penkoff, I live in Connecticut and I am 44 years old. This is my first attempt to write everything they wanted someone else to read. I have been married for a long time and have a child. Both of these men to whom I adore. If you want to know more about me, please consult the following article recently made http://ladyinthespotlight.8m.net/whats_new_29.html Thank you for your time.
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We’ll use your suggestion to improve translation quality in future updates to our system. The bride dictionary defines as “a love of a child or a man, a girl who is best friend and / or the wife of a friend of a woman”. Wow, that’s it? Someone call somebody. <br> <br> These days should include things like their relationship to reality, the person or persons who seem to know what they need to do before you, people sit up and talk to you until 4 am. These are backups. They understand that love, are honest with you, instead of dishing you BS, will be there when no one else is. Does that sound like your friends? So I hope, for their sake. This is absolutely one of the necessities of life. <br> <br> Have you noticed the bride revolution? How important “brides” have become. We would like to think that we have always known, but the truth is that they have not done so. It has not always been so easy to define. <br> <br> Think of the elementary school for a minute. You go into kindergarten and usually, if you are a girl, you have a best friend within days. This is where you have to sit next to, play with dolls, hand going nowhere in the great fear that school. You can not wait to return to school the next day. This works for a few years. <br> <br> Along about third grade children to discover. It is not as if they did not exist before, but somehow it is simply different. They are completely alien to this by the way. Very soon, they will come to the conclusion that you are simply “strange”. That is where the problem seems to begin. To treat yourself as always, but somehow seems different. You and Sally are best friends yesterday. Today, for some reason, when Tommy said hello to her and not you, which became a problem. How did that happen? I have no idea. But I think that has something to do with the models and hormones. We see all around us that grow even if we are not aware of this. You can not blame your mother, your aunt or grandmother. This goes way back and beyond. Mix that with the female hormones and watch. <br> <br> So why change? Why suddenly is not only OK to have girlfriends, but a necessity? That is why ladies. It is a necessity. In every area of your life, this is needed in the worst way. <br> <br> 1) Emotionally - not only makes sense to have someone in their lives who can understand that sometimes you are just sad? And yes, I do mourn feel better! <br> <br> 2) Physically - I am sure she has problems with a body part here and there. Who else could understand not getting into your swimsuit and go to the pool in 97 degree weather? <br> <br> 3) Psychologically - We just think differently. We always have, always will be. She understands why you annoyed when their other half does not take clothes down on his way to his car. <br> <br> 4) romantic - Who else is going to bounce out of things? Who else will equally excited about their plans as you? Thus, it can be doubly annoying if it becomes insane. <br> <br> So, who are they? Who are the brides in your life that you can not live without him? Have you really thought about it? What deserve to be there? Is Worthy have? I would like to give you a starting point. Tip …. Is not necessarily to be part of the whole time. As fun as they are, may not have their best interests at heart. So do not confuse an acquaintance or friend with a “girlfriend”. Here is a little help. <br> <br> • Is she one of the first people they should call when something happens? Good or bad? <br> <br> • Is it your weekend friends (without makeup)? <br> <br> • Are honest with you ….. Always? <br> <br> • Do you give advice like it or not, but not bad if not take it? (This is a biggy.) <br> <br> • Do not have to censor their ideas and / or opinions with it? <br> <br> • Does make you feel safe? <br> <br> • Are you sure you will be there through thick and thin without question? <br> <br> How do your friends? For me, for my girlfriend, you have to comply with those requirements. ALL of them. This is not a test or a private club. It is my life. It’s your life, so treat them with care and consideration you deserve to have. If not, who will? Be good to yourself and just be surrounded by people who believe they deserve it. <br> <br> For those with a “spouse” or a facsimile of one, a bride is a totally different ball. Brides support, which do not try to fix. Your partner just want to fix it and what to do with it. You know …… Change the channel? <br> <br> High School, the kind meant everything. You are expected to blow off their girlfriends at the last minute when he received a date. Nobody liked it when it happened to them, but if the tables were turned you would do the same. <br> <br> Bride ….. Rule you should lose his mind and found dialing the telephone to cancel his girlfriend because of a “date” she has the right, at a later time, the conference you and you should sit down and take without complaint. <br> <br> Bride rules are basic in nature and should be directed to you, but they should also have some basic concepts. Do unto others (you know the rest), to be honest, but always with love and care to protect not only you but the people that you love. One more thing; leave behind the ruling. That serves no purpose. <br> <br> If not screamingly apparent to you, I love my girlfriend. I could not survive without them. They are the most wonderful that women can meet, and I thank God for them every day. Each is completely unique and surprising in its way. They are beautiful, inside and out, and giving in a way that the mind boggles. <br> <br> “Brides are the charms of our lives. Collect for its meaning and beauty and creating a unique heritage of ours. “Be creative. <br> <br> You just read excerpts from the book “Generation Girlfriend” is fun and meaningful all at the same time. This book is designed to be shared. The perfect gift friend with a lot of areas within add your own love. Excellent for all women in their lives. In the end, a magazine for the owner to share with herself. Are you a good girl? Not your other half, the women in their lives. Women’s friendships have changed dramatically in recent years. This is a little walk down memory lane, with the focus on the here and now that. Who are their girlfriends? What you deserve? Do they deserve? An easy reading with lots of common sense thrown in. Your reaction may surprise you. <br> <br> To order or download the book please go to http://www.lulu.com/content/2155279 You can also go to my website at http://www.girlfriendgeneration.com <br> < br> My name is Cindy Penkoff, I live in Connecticut and I am 44 years old. This is my first attempt to write everything they wanted someone else to read. I have been married for a long time and have a child. Both of these men to whom I adore. If you want to know more about me, please consult the following article recently made http://ladyinthespotlight.8m.net/whats_new_29.html Thank you for your time. <br> <br> Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Cindy_Penkoff
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